Wednesday, 21 December 2011
What about asking someone for help?
When a friend calls me up for "a favour" or even when I see a perfect stranger struggling, I don't generally have a problem offering assistance. I don't see it as an issue, and one really does get some sort of warm fuzzies when you've done that good deed for the day.
But when it comes to asking for help, life isn't quite so rosy.
I hate asking friends for favours. I feel like I'm encroaching on their time. I feel like I'm being a burden. I feel like I'm being difficult. I feel like I'm inconveniencing them.
I just hate asking for help.
And yet, one cannot go through life without ever asking for help. And perhaps I need to give my friends the credit that when I do ask them for help, they don't think about the trouble they have to go through. Instead, they simply want to help because that's the kind of people they are.
The Bible says, "You obey the law of Christ when you offer each other a helping hand" (Galatians 6:2).
If every one of us were self-sufficient, how in the world are we ever going to offer anyone a helping hand?